One hit wonder…

Recently I went to a concert where there was an opportunity to give to a child’s fund that helps support kids overseas who are in need. This is a great ministry and really helps spread the love of Christ. After talking to one of the sponsors, I was intrigued by something. He explained to me the difference between a one-time gift and a monthly donation. He said that folks could give a one-time gift and help a child, but that would be the end of it. Yet, if they were to give a monthly gift, it would be a continuous stream of help to that child.

This got me thinking. It is so much easier to show love as a onetime thing than to do so on a constant basis. I can put up with that crazy uncle once a year at Christmas but having to put up and love him every day would be so much harder (that’s why you always want to live at least 3 hours away from said Crazy uncle).

Jude reminds us here of this when he prays that love, mercy, and peace not simply be upon us, but that they be multiplied to us. In other words, not a onetime thing. (Clarification needed: I am not saying a onetime gift is bad. The point is that a one time love that does and then forgets is not how we are called to love. God wants us to invest our lives in others. Clarification over.)

Ok, so let’s put this in real life. Do you love God as a one-time thing? Do you love others as a one-time thing? Do you help in a one-time way or do you invest your life into that of another? Is your love a one hit wonder or are you multiplying it?

Jude 1:1-2

Jude, a servant of Jesus Christ and a brother of James,

To those who have been called, who are loved in God the Father and kept for Jesus Christ:

Mercy, peace and love be yours in abundance.


One hit wonder…

Listen to your little ones…

Here is a little poem that deals with how we deal with our children.  It goes as follows:

Take a Moment to Listen

Take a moment to listen today

To what your children are trying to say;

Listen today, whatever you do

Or they won’t be there to listen to you.

Listen to their problems, listen for their needs,

Praise their smallest triumphs, praise their smallest deeds;

Tolerate their chatter, amplify their laughter,

Find out what’s the matter, find out what they’re after.

But tell them that you love them, every single night

And though you scold them, be sure you hold them tight:

Tell them “Everything’s all right;

Tomorrow’s looking bright!”

Take a moment to listen today

To what your children are trying to say;

Listen today, whatever you do

And they will come back to listen to you.

Psalm 34:11

11 Come, my children, listen to me;
    I will teach you the fear of the Lord.

Listen to your little ones…

Testimony vs. Hearsay??

Do you know the difference between a testimony and hearsay?  Now, this is not the technical definition but my own paraphrase.  The difference is that one is something you have experienced yourself and the other is something you simply heard someone else say or do (kind of like gossip…but we Christians wouldn’t know anything about that, would we?).  John starts his letter off by saying this is not hearsay.  We have touched, we have seen, we have heard….this is a testimony.  John was not only establishing his credibility here, but also reminding us that this faith we speak of is not simply a fairytale, but it is real.

Makes me wonder, if we in the church have a faith that is a testimony or simply a faith of hearsay.  When we go and tell others about Jesus, is it from a deeply personal and real experience with Christ where we know His love and we love Him, or is it something we heard from or about someone else?  There comes a time when the faith of the Apostles becomes ours, and we join in the story with John because we have seen it ourselves…maybe not with our eyes, but with our hearts.

1 John 1:1-3

That which was from the beginning, which we have heard, which we have seen with our eyes, which we have looked at and our hands have touched—this we proclaim concerning the Word of life. The life appeared; we have seen it and testify to it, and we proclaim to you the eternal life, which was with the Father and has appeared to us. We proclaim to you what we have seen and heard, so that you also may have fellowship with us. And our fellowship is with the Father and with his Son, Jesus Christ.

Testimony vs. Hearsay??

Give thought to your steps…

A while back one of my girls was out playing with my dog Bandit in the yard.  She was throwing a ball.  She would toss it and then Bandit would run and retrieve it and bring it back.  This went on, but then a streak of meanness hit my girl.  She went to throw the ball, but instead of throwing it she only pretended to throw it and then hid it behind her back.  Bandit ran, stopped, sniffed, searched….and searched….and searched.  Finally, we had to call him back to us, but he didn’t come right away because he was still looking for the ball!  Finally, we showed him the ball and tossed it and all was well once more.

Now, Bandit is gullible because he is not the smartest dog in the world.  Yet, we tend to be the same way.  Not in chasing balls, (though I have been known to have been suckered when someone pretended to throw a chicken wing!), but in being gullible and believing everything we hear.  We hear gossip, and we take it as gospel.  We see media reports and before the news is even verified, the person is already tried, convicted, and executed in the public square.  We hear that this is what we should do and we do it without thinking first.  Not good.

Here is what the author of Proverbs says to do: Give thought to your steps.   Think things through.  You hear gossip, before you believe it think it through and ask that person, “Do you mind if we go and speak to this person about this?”  Before you condemn someone, get the facts first before you cast your stone.  And think through your steps before you act in anyway.

Today, as you go about your business, make sure that you are thinking through things and not simply chasing after balls that may or may not have been thrown.

Proverbs 14:15

The simple believe anything,
    but the prudent give thought to their steps.




Give thought to your steps…

Oh Lord, how long?!


I hate to wait.  Not many people enjoy it but I really despise waiting (it’s why I play Christmas music in July…who can wait!).  What is really hard is when the waiting is when I am waiting on someone to come and help me out.  The other day, I am ashamed to admit that I ran out of gas once again and this time I had to call my oldest daughter to come and rescue me (have you ever gotten a lecture from your child about putting gas in a car! Ugh!).  Now I know that I called her and she told me where she was and I knew how long it would take, but sitting on the side of the road stranded, each car passing by made me feel like I was sitting there for hours.  “How long, O Clarissa until you bring me thy gas!”  It was tempting to think that she would never come and I should just abandon the vehicle and start walking, but I had to keep reminding myself that she would come, she would bring gas, I would drive once again.

How long, O Lord?  The psalmist feels like God has forgotten him.  That God is not hearing his prayers and not doing anything to help him in his distress.  We all have been there, haven’t we?  I know I have.  But look again at how the psalmist ends this psalm.  He says that he trusts in God’s unfailing love and he will sing to the Lord.  Even when it seems like God is delaying, not listening, not helping…we trust in God’s love and His goodness.

So when it feels like God is delaying, focus not on the delay but on the unfailing love of God and His goodness to you.  This will give you hope, which will give you the ability to wait on God.

Psalm 13:1-6

How long, Lord? Will you forget me forever?
    How long will you hide your face from me?
How long must I wrestle with my thoughts
    and day after day have sorrow in my heart?
    How long will my enemy triumph over me?

Look on me and answer, Lord my God.
    Give light to my eyes, or I will sleep in death,
and my enemy will say, “I have overcome him,”
    and my foes will rejoice when I fall.

But I trust in your unfailing love;
    my heart rejoices in your salvation.
I will sing the Lord’s praise,
    for he has been good to me.

Oh Lord, how long?!

Kindness, Compassion or Indifference?

Think about how powerful this one little verse is.  They praised God because of me.  Paul was referring to how his life had been before and the difference that the Gospel had made in his life.  He was such a new creation that when people saw him they couldn’t believe it.  They knew it was the work of God.  So when they saw Paul live his life, the response was that they praised God because of him.  How about us?  If someone was to base their opinion of God by what they see in us would they praise God because of us or curse Him because of us, or perhaps be indifferent to God because they see that in us.

Galatians 1:24

24 And they praised God because of me.

Kindness, Compassion or Indifference?

The Planter of Seeds

A woman has a dream where she wanders into a shop at the mall and finds Jesus behind a counter. Jesus says, “You can have anything your heart desires.”

Astounded but pleased, she asks for peace, joy, happiness, wisdom, and freedom from fear. Then she adds, “Not just for me, but for the whole earth.”

Jesus smiles and says, “I think you misunderstand me. We don’t sell fruits, only seeds.”

1 Corinthians 3:6-9

I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God has been making it grow. So neither the one who plants nor the one who waters is anything, but only God, who makes things grow. The one who plants and the one who waters have one purpose, and they will each be rewarded according to their own labor. For we are co-workers in God’s service; you are God’s field, God’s building.

The Planter of Seeds